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Birthing the Wise Wombman Wisdom School

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Birthing the Wise Wombman Wisdom School.

Have you ever had a dream so big it’s scared the crap out of you?

Donna Raymond. Wise Wombman DreamingThe Wise Wombman dreaming that I received over 3 years ago is that big bold, dare I say CRAZY dream that came through, called me to dance with the possibility of being the mother to birth it…the gatekeeper and custodian to dream it into being.

In the early days, I was very discerning with whom I shared my vision with, as I did not want to taint the essence of creation that was singing through me. It’s always been there, mammoth… epic… and sacred.

Slowly but surely I have been developing the skills necessary through various initiations to do justice to what has been asked of me in birthing the Wise Wombman Wisdom School. It is only in the last couple days that I fully realise the scope of ripples that are yet to permeate the collective field from what I have created and will continue to put my creative energy into.

It is still a work in progress.. and will be as I continually evolve and call in what is necessary to fulfil the vision of it’s completion.

Wise Wombman Logo Donna RaymondI believe that our sacred ‘businesses’ are an extension of ourselves and also that they have souls that resides on their own- inside the infinite potential of All That Is.

I feel that we are called to serve our business as much as it serves us, and this knowing has allowed me to surrender to mystery of this dreaming as I am guided to initiate her arrival, knowing that ‘she’, my business, has her own rhythms, seasons and cycles.

Wise Wombman in essence embodies the man within woman and the woman within man. Serving the whole sovereign self that embodies both masculine and feminine qualities. My focus at the moment is being called to serve women, though this will shift in time.

As a deep listener, I go where Spirit calls me.

This hasn’t been without deep soul excavation and catharsis. Holy shit! I have died so many times in the last 3 years. I have had to navigate through intense doubts and negative self talk that has immobilised me in procrastination, anxiety and binge eating chocolate. Hashtag Real Talk!

I have had to overcome that intense and often brutal inner critical voice that shreds me with,

quotefancy-7772-3840x2160“Who the fuck do you think YOU are you to create a school?”

“Where’s your PHD or masters degree Donna?”

“No one will take you seriously!”

“Give up- You’re not good enough!”

“Other people are doing this gig better than you”

“No one cares, No one will support this, your vision is stupid and unrealistic”

As I allow this purge to wash over me, I started to question the lineage of education systems and wondered… How were schools created back in the day… before this institutionalisation of information?

We had Guilds.

We had Mystery Schools

Temples and Monasteries

We shared space with elders who passed on sacred knowledge, culture and tradition. Indeed the archetypal student and teacher relationship goes way beyond our egoic titles and modern acronyms.

This realisation gave me comfort as I am a firm subscriber to the belief that we are all encoded with ancient wisdom passed through from our ancestors.

It’s in our blood and in our bones.

We are in a time of awakening and remembering who we are at a Soul level. And my soul is ancient. It’s been around the block a few times or more. It knows some shit and has been called in this lifetime to share, and I’m bold enough to give it all I have.

Donna Raymond Wise Wombman PriestessEver since I was a small child I would have these vivid dreams about being (what I now know to be) a High Priestess… a wisdom keeper of Sacred knowledge that had an order of ‘monks’ working for me as scribes for the Oracle that I would embody.

I could walk between worlds and navigate the Spiritual Ethers to bring back maps and keys that would help guide others.

If I close my eyes now, I can still see those visions so lucid and clear.

Since the age of 6, I remember having vivid dreams about creating a village, as I journeyed throughout my late teens and early twenties- growing spiritually and developing emotional maturity and resilience, I thought that I would be helping to co-create a “conscious community” like a permaculture village. Indeed I still have dreams of creating that, but for now my village, my tribe presents itself in the way of an online Wisdom School.

I feel like the last decade or more have been an intense initiation in remembering that on a Soul level I am a wisdom keeper, and it is my responsibility in this time and space to share that with the world in my own way. As a highly sensitive, empathic ambivert, this has created quite a stir… with my resistance to truly ‘being seen’.

A HUGE part of that was the fear of being misunderstood and thus creating pain for others whilst isolating myself, when I so dearly wish to connect and inspire.

Consequently, I have learned that my biggest desire is on the flipside of my biggest fear, they co-exist and dance together in a symbiotic union within my heart. You might see it sometimes in my awkward realness and raw expressions. I can’t fake being me.

Truth is, no matter how much I try and hide… SHE calls me forth… my Wise Woman- Ancestral Self. It’s almost as if I don’t have a choice in the matter. I was born to serve in this way and she laughs at my selfish insecurities! oh how I make fun of myself when I am shedding skins.

aussie-tall-poppyFor a long time I resisted calling myself a leader, although I knew I possessed natural leadership qualities which were prevalent in my early childhood.

Cos you know… Tall Poppy. (It’s an Australian thing!)

As a young girl, I would create games and teach people how to play them and suggest specific characters to match different personalities. Perhaps I had an ability to ‘see’ people early on, or maybe it was just an intuitive knowing. In year two at 7 years old, there were always people waiting for me to come up with a new game and to appoint new roles and characters.  Most of these games that I made up, revolved around elaborate problem solving mysteries. Thinking back now- those kids trusted that my imagination would take them on an adventure… and I so dearly loved to create memories and involve anyone who was interested in playing. I had an ability to create something out of nothing but the resources of what was available to me in my immediate environment.

Nothing much has changed!

I still ‘make things up’ I suppose. My receptivity to the visionary realms of the collective allows me to become a conduit for Spirit to explore and create through me, and rather than take people on random mystery tours, these days I help them transform their lives and shift perspectives into being the best versions of themselves. I do believe that this is part of our spiritual odyssey in life, to be the best version of ourselves for not only our families and communities, but for the generations of children that will inherit the Earth long after we have returned to the soil.

Donna RaymondHaving said all of this it is with great pleasure, blood, sweat and many, many tears that I can announce the birth of the Wise Wombman Wisdom School. A platform to share wisdom as a catalyst for Self-Actualisation through education and inspiration. I am passionate about sharing what I know about healing, emotional resilience and alchemy, womb wisdom and sacred feminine/women’s mystery teachings, leadership, conscious entrepreneurship, sacred and conscious birthing, grounded spirituality, majick and ritual, art, psychology etc.

It’s like a mixed bag of awesomesauce and I am the Sorceress that whips it real good!

As you can see, I am also a bit of a dork!

I am the type of person who has always been multi-faceted in my abilities and what inspires me. Throughout my years, I have created a large network of inspiring visionaries that I call my friends. I hope to provide a platform to share their wisdom also, and that Wise Wombman will act as a portal of deep connection and inspiration.

scs_header_webThe first potent offering is my Sacred Circle Secrets program which helps conscious and spirited women create and facilitate womens circles and red tents with confidence. I hold a clear vision that many different women have access to safe and sacred places to gather in solidarity of a supportive sisterhood. To do this, more women are needed to step up in the role as facilitator to create sacred space and to also become a woman that other women can trust. I feel the rise of the feminine energy emerging to help us shift the current paradigm of disconnect we find ourselves in. I created this course to share what I have learned over the years as a facilitator and event co-ordinator, to inspire many different types of women to step into this work. I am trusting that those that hear the call will rise to the occasion and take part in this movement of awakening feminine energy that is happening globally.

dreamsAs I navigate this journey sharing courses, intimate journey work, writing, personal and group mentoring and now as a speaker, I feel wholeheartedly what it is to be a pioneer. A wayshower. A symbol of what is possible if we dare to dream, and dare to bold enough to go for it!

As I stoke the sacred fire that burns within. Scared as I might be sometimes, I do what is necessary to embody the courage to step up, to shine my unique light and be visible in the world that for so long has shunned women in positions of power and leadership.

I am no longer under threat of being persecuted or burnt at the stake. I am in a place of great privilege and so I must do what I can do to serve the greater good. This is my way. This makes sense to me.

The power that I wield as a leader is reflected to me in the beauty of relationships that I have with others and the transformational change that results from co-creating with them through connected and inspiring hearts.

We are all in this together finding common unity in community, we will guide each other home.

Thank you for being here and for your continued support as I walk this path with an open heart and mind.

If you feel called to share in the evolution of the Wise Wombman Wisdom School, if you’re interested in what I have to share and offer, then please make sure you subscribe. As with this website I do not feel I should have to ‘bribe’ people with an ‘opt-in’ gift to gain your email address to “sell” you stuff. HA! I’m a bit of a rebel in that sense and break with the protocol of most online entrepreneurs.

If my work resonates then join me on the journey. If not, blessings to you on yours!

Love is…

Donna x

 

 

 

Freebirth is not a dirty word

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FreeBirth

It seems that there is a view around Freebirthing that deems it unsafe and irresponsible, where women are deliberately putting themselves and their babies in danger.

Freebirth is not a dirty word!

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After 2 c-sections, Caitlin Freebirthed Lola safely at home.

I want to take this time to openly state that, of course it is not for everyone, and that…

Freebirther’s are not extremist birth vigilantes or crazy, trippy hippies who scream, “Fuck the System”

Most women I know that have claimed the role as “freebirther’s” are well researched. Yes, we are birth activists, openly encouraging women to listen to their intuition and strongly advocate a woman’s right to chose how she gives births and where.

The choice to freebirth is an informed one. The experience is completely liberating.

We enter into the birthing realm with full responsibility and understanding about the language of birth. We are educated in birth practices and Sacred ways. Some of us have had traumatic births in the past, Some of us are transitioning from Maiden to Mother for the first time and some of us are seasoned mamas. Point being… you can’t pigeonhole us into a box that makes it easier to disassociate with.

Baby girl Adelaide, born free at home.

Baby girl Adelaide, born free at home.

We branch across all demographics, ethnicities and socio-economic statuses. We are women, who have made a choice to birth on our own terms, without the aid of any medical professionals present. For some of us this decision is made without hesitation, for others it is a journey to feel comfortable with this option.

Yes, it is an option!

We journey in many ways to overcome our fears, social fears and the stigmatisation that can surround birth. Due to the current political atmospheres and discussions around birth, Sometimes this means keeping our plans to ourselves to avoid criticism and judgment from others- or pending on where you live, being reported!

Birth is a natural process, not a medical one.

Part of the reason I felt so called to freebirth my daughters was that I knew I could as a Sovereign Being and to lead by example, claiming birth as a natural process and rite of passage… and to say,

“Hey… there is another way! Birth is not scary like you see depicted in the media and movies… it is beautiful and Sacred and can be so completely drama free and empowering… it can be a complete Spiritual and Shamanic experience… and you CAN do it at home, safely and naturally!”

"Eden" Copyright Incandescent Photography Read Birth Story

“Eden” Copyright Incandescent Photography
Read Birth Story Here

Although birthing unassisted is not for everyone, it is such an empowering way to connect to the ancient Primal Mother archetype, to our great, great grandmothers, the tribal ways of women’s mysteries, held and guarded fiercely with grace by the wise women of the community, midwives.

Women have been “freebirthing” since the dawn of humanity.

Of course, as with anything, it is not the only way, and any woman can feel empowered through birth, no matter where she chooses. Empowerment comes through choice, and owning those choices fully and the consequences, good or bad, derived from our actions.

In contemporary culture, Freebirthing is deemed radical and unsafe.

“OH, YOU’RE SO BRAVE”

“BUT YOUR BABY COULD DIE, YOU COULD DIE”

I don’t know about being brave… to some extent yes, Freebirthing is a courageous act, but for me it just felt completely natural… like no big deal!

And yes, my baby could die… my baby could die in utero, my baby could die in the hospital with several medical professionals on guard. My dignity could also die at the hands of professionals who apparently know my body better than I do and override my right to choose.

Yes, I could die… but you know I researched the risks and prepared myself. The biggest risk for me was hemorrhaging, by full term I had become anemic. So, like any responsible adult would, I took measures to address that risk- like eating iron rich foods with vitamin C, minimising dairy intake and supplementing with 3-4 sachets of Spatone to boost my levels. I also knew that after birthing in the water, to get out as soon as possible… The sole reason for this is to monitor blood loss, as it is hard to measure once it is diluted. I also knew that if I started to feel faint or dizzy- if consciousness was fading, to call for help without a second thought.

Death, Birth… they’re two sides of the same coin really. In a completely sacred and delicate balance.

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Natural Labour in the Billabong. Copyright Billa kgari @ www.thepacificvillage.com

When I made the decision to freebirth Maia, it was due to the fact that I had absolutely no fear to do so. I had a wonderful midwife for all my check ups though she did not attend homebirths, and connected with a local independent midwife at 38weeks incase I wanted to hire her. The only reason in my mind to hire her, was if Maia’s father was too anxious, then she would be there more in service to him, than to me. We spoke for a while and she agreed that I didn’t really need her. She was confident that everything would be fine as much as I was. I trusted my body and the process completely. Everything felt clear, as it did with my second freebirth of Lucah 7 weeks ago and I was not ignorant to the risks involved.

Our fears about the “what if’s” can actually create the outcome we are hoping to avoid… that is not to say with respects to birth that we should become complacent… on the contrary, we should be totally prepared in all ways.  As sovereign beings, claiming the full role and responsibility of Mother.

"Piper, born on my shower floor"

“Piper, born on the shower floor”

As a Freebirthing mama, you have to be very confident in your body and ability to birth. Any unresolved emotional issues will usually present themselves in the days leading up to birth, or during labour.

You prepare to have all the support you need leading up to, during and after birth. You speak with other women and gain wisdom from midwives. You have a backup plan in place for the what-if’s, if they should occur and consider notifying local hospital and ambulance of your plans. You would also take into consideration your own physiology and any health risk factors that could impede your ability to birth safely. Essentially you know your body better than anyone else…

This isn’ a game, and the decision is not made lightly or with naivety.

Birth is a Natural process

Atticus – free-birthed at home into a house full of love.

As strange as some find the concept, Women freebirth all the time… sometimes they’re completely unplanned… in the shower, in the car, in the back yard. It happens.

You know… if un-interrupted, babies will come when they are ready and sometimes it’s a surprise or at an ‘inconvenient’ time.

Birth can be unpredictable no matter where a mother chooses to labour and birth. The most important factor is that mother feels safe, secure and that she is in safe hands, whether they are her own, her partners, doula, a midwife or an OBGYN.

Different strokes for different folks!

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Another safe freebirth at home, surrounded by family. Mother expressed that she wasn’t worried at all.

Just because one mama chooses to birth herself does not make her irresponsible, irrational or an extremist.

Unfortunately in Australia our birthing practices do not support all choices of the mother, and our freedom to choose is under threat. Although I am a free birthing mother, I am also an advocate and strong supporter for Independent Midwives and firmly believe that women should be able to have access to midwifery and continuity of care through the public health system which could see more women birthing safely at home. As it stands now, it can be expensive to hire an independent midwife (if you can find one in your area) and that’s if they are lucky enough to be insured.

My perception is that if we support a woman’s’ right to choose where and with whom she births, then it will free up “patient” loads in hospitals. Pregnant women are not sick. Continuity of care will also aid mother to make empowered decisions, and connect with her pregnancy and newborn. Developing relationships with the birthing mother and baby means that it will help to curb the growing rate of birth trauma, postnatal depression and PTSD which more and more women are speaking about their experiences within the medical establishment. This can weigh heavily on the medical system later and it is totally preventable!

This freebirth was with an experienced birth attendant. Copyright Lifespiral Photography

The way I see it, is that if independent midwives are not supported, we will see an increase in women deciding to freebirth, sheerly out of wanting to avoid a medical birth with interventions. We will see more women putting themselves at risk out of fear, rather than from an informed and empowered state… And that is what will cause an increase in unsafe birthing.

If you are considering Unassisted Childbirth- aka Freebirth, please do your best to research birth processes as much as possible, and find ways to prepare yourself physically and emotionally to be confident you will safely birth with ease. Talk to a local midwife and look online. There is a wealth of information from optimal positioning to what to do if you have a shoulder presentation, cord around the neck, vaginal tearing, hemorrhaging etc. Perhaps one of our most valuable resources is women’s birth stories. Seek those that are inspiring and drama free. This will help to keep you focused and in a empowered state, especially during the such a profoundly sensitive time during Pregnancy.

Mind over matter, and birth matters!

If we support women in their birth choices, we are not only supporting the birth of her child, we are also supporting the healthy birth of a Mother. Mental health and particularly Post Partum Recovery affects more than the nuclear family.

If like me, you care about women having the right to choose than please consider signing the petition below

sign here–> petition-to-allow-private-midwives-insurance

Valuable links

Freebirth Australia

Homebirth Australia

Find a Midwife Australia

 

 

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The Rise of the Feminine

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I wrote this to contribute to this month’s Connect Magazine

The Rise of the Feminine 

Silent Rhythms by Autumn Skye Morrison

Silent Rhythms by Autumn Skye Morrison

When we think of femininity, we often think of gentle, delicate and flowery terms attributed with archetypal images of the innocent Maiden and the sexual Goddess, which stem from of our limited exposure and understanding of femininity.

We see the feminine essence dancing and frolicking in her sweet naivety, she is weak and dependent, soft and sensual. Yearning to be captured or possessed wrapped up and claimed in the protective embrace of strong masculine presence.

We praise her desirability, alluring sexuality and mystical beauty, yet shun her emotional impulses, wisdom and intelligence… often failing to witness and value other expressions of the feminine- primarily anchored in the form of a seasoned woman, expressed archetypally as the Mother’s sacrifice, the Crone’s wisdom and the power and authority of the Priestess.

Femiv-ads-4-ninity does not dissolve or become dull once a woman has children, it actually matures into a depth of embodied presence. This could be why our culture chooses to only celebrate the feminine form in its youthful expression. Her physical beauty and sexuality are easily
commoditized for profit.

Unfortunately though, through the skewed lens of patriarchal culture, our modern society does not know how to, nor want to, value the true essence and power of femininity.

Femininity is an expression of the feminine essence, its expression is not limited to gender and it is but one face of creation energy.

We all have expressions of the feminine and masculine energy with us and can use these energies to serve us in different ways.

The feminine is the receptive, intuitive side of being. It is Consciousness made manifest through the desire to experience itself physically. In short, it is nature.

Nature is cyclical, and whilst it has observable patterns, it is also uncertain, where the only constant is change.

Birth, creation and growth… Death, destruction and decay.

It is often the intuitive and emotionally receptive side of femininity that is so misunderstood.

Emotions are to some extent just energy in motion, the way that our subconscious responds to sensory information from our environment, just like the weather. You could say that the feminine is the barometer for emotional undercurrents and as such, due to what is socially acceptable, a range of emotional expressions are often suppressed. The full gamut of emotional expressions, accessed through embodied femininity, becomes distorted as we push the undesirable into the shadows.

The shadow side of the feminine is fierce. Full power, she will rage in righteousness and justice for ancestors that have fallen in a cacophony of screams and generations of children whose future has been jeopardized at the hands of psychopathic corporatocracy. She will voice her truth unwavering and unapologetically. Ego and Pride play no part in swaying her moral compass. She will destroy all cast illusions and protect the innocent; she will run and hide if needed to serve as a wisdom keeper of forgotten ways. She commands respect for the life force that summons her fertility and will die unto herself time and again, knowing that HERstory will be told.

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Kali Yuga by Redreev George

Archetypally we know this embodiment of femininity as the witch, the dark goddess Kali or Lilith. Depicted with grotesque imagery, designed to subconsciously create an instinctual form of repulsion that separates us from our means of identifying those facets within ourselves.

Why?

Because there is great power there!

Make no mistake if you cross paths with someone embodying feminine fury. As quick as nature can create life, it can destroy it in the same breath, which in itself is another act of creation.

Such is the nature of growth.

All you need to do is look to the natural world for wisdom- the microcosm of the macrocosm, as a tree falls and dies in the forest, it gives life in the way of nutrient to mycelium, composting into new soil and making room for the vines to begin their climb towards the sunlit canopy.

For too long we have feared death, and so we have feared life… the act and art of truly living as a whole being. Embodying the Masculine and the Feminine. Donna Raymond Sacred Feminine Mentor

The medicine of femininity lays in catharsis… the shedding and renewal of self. Like an alchemical womb, either seeding life or letting go of that which no longer serves.

Femininity will strip us of all masks and illusions if we dare to explore ourselves in depth.

Contrary to what our rational minds will have us believe, (because the feminine has been deliberately disenfranchised) it is our men that have suffered the most!

This subconscious meme that constantly tells us that femininity is soft or weak, severs the masculine ties to the medicine of feminine expression. Our brothers disengage with the their intuitive emotional receptors, and rather than feel their feelings and process them accordingly, they learn to bottle them up, or switch off completely- numbing the pain through distraction and addiction. We subscribe to the notion that ‘Boys don’t cry’ and that when life is challenging, or during crisis they have to ‘Man up.’

For too long we have been tricked into believing that being a woman, being feminine means being powerless and inferior. To add insult to injury, we associate derogatory and abusive terms with female anatomy and feminine qualities.

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artist unknown

So what chance do we give our boys, our men to even want to develop their femininity? To cultivate strong emotional foundations which establish intimacy and connection with others and allow pathways for healing.

Femininity teaches us the dance of creation, contraction and expansion… it is constantly changing and evolving, feeling and conversing with the unspoken realms.

With depression and male suicides on the rise, now more than ever we must encourage the feminine to rise in us all. We must encourage the feminine to hold the masculine in loving nurture as so many are lost, scared and not sure of how to be.

Let our femininity not emasculate us, but rather call us all home.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just One Of Those Strong Woman Days

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Strong Woman Days,
When you’ve been walking the floor for hours, your shoulders aching with tension… feeling your body begin to shut down… and still you walk on.

stronghead stuffy and pounding from a cold, muscles aching and you still manage to entertain the children, fold 3 loads of washing, mediate childish conflict and tantrums, navigate the supermarket diffusing the “I want’s and can we have’s?”

Unpack the car with screaming babe in arms carrying as much as you can in one go… at least the cold items.

You put the groceries down on the kitchen floor and are immediately met with a chorus of, “We’re hungry!”

oh yea, Baby is still screaming…

Pick up baby, attempt to make lunches one handed. Mother

You laugh at yourself at how ridiculously ‘unco’ this whole situation is.

Palm baby off to big sister so you can finish preparing the lunches, after 5 min of baby crying loudly, big sister freaks out and say’s she can’t handle it anymore.

You smile, take bub from her arms and say thank you.

5:30pm- witching hour!

Shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt!!!!!

Prepare a last minute dinner whilst caring for a newborn who is exceptionally grizzly, hasn’t slept much today and only wants to be held and boob most of the time.

After 3hrs you finally settle baby, put her down, manage to go to the toilet before you hear her cries again, you sit on the loo… tears are now flooding your eyes and cascading down your face… you just want a moment reprieve, so you stay there.
The only place you can find solace away from everyone when it all feels shit… is on the shitter…
unless of course there’s a toddler around… because nowhere is sacred
Baby still crying.. you hope her father will get up to soother her…
so you wait for a moment… crying your exhausted heart out… Baby’s cries get louder and louder… and are more important than yours.
Get yourself together woman…
You realise it’s all on your shoulders again… you pick her up and start walking… trying different positions to settle her. Your nose is dripping by this stage, and just as you feel her body relax you sneeze, or have to blow your nose and she startles and wakes again…
wash, rinse, repeat
You are both so exhausted.
Sophia-Loren-MotherYou feel like your reserve tank is nearing empty and it leaves you wondering how the fuck we manage to get the short end of the stick?
Through pregnancy, birth, post-partum. as a cocktail of hormones courses through your body… picking up the bulk of domestic and emotional labour, all the managing of who’s got what on when and how etc.
Everyone in the house is asleep except you, cos you’re totally wired now… that trusty second, third, fourth wind has kicked in…
Thanks Prolactin
It takes a village to support a mother
I’m not complaining at all…  just offering a glimpse into my world. Beyond what anyone perceives my life to be like. Yes I’m a powerhouse of a woman, but somedays hit me for a six.
Today is one of them…
Just having one of those days, they happen… and as fucked as they are, I am so grateful for them. I am grateful for being pushed to my limits and appreciating how strong I am to keep carrying on… despite illness, pain, fatigue, or emotions… I’m showing up as best I can.
I am grateful for the respect I have gained for my mother who did all of this, working 2 jobs with 4 kids in tow…
For all the mama’s out there, Stay at home, full time employed, solo, studying mamas.
We all know this is a full time gig!
I am grateful to see the areas in my life which are needing attention. By way of boundaries being set and where communication is needing to become clearer.
I’m sensitive sometimes.
And in these moments I just let my tears flow, and pop a few drops of Motherwort under my tongue…
Sometimes I feel like a seed, cracking my outer shell.
Ahh… Growth!
Sometimes painful and messy, but all necessary for learning and changing.
Tomorrow is another day. It may be a repeat, it may not be. One thing I have learnt over my almost 9 years of mothering is you never really get to “clock off’
This too shall pass…
It’s just one of those Strong Woman days
 

Hold Your Ground

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Hold your ground…

When Current affairs throw spears at your heart and blind you in despair,

Hold your ground.

And breathe through the feelings that arise

When visions of drowned babies surface awakening a deep collective grief

Hold your ground.

And breathe through the pain you feel inside

When Genocide is overlooked, over-commentated and amplified

Hold your ground.

And breathe through all the injustice and lies

When the forests burn and the trenches fill with flesh

Hold Your Ground

And breathe through the insanity of reason.

When the bombs explode in echoes of lives taken too soon

Hold your ground.

And breathe through the rubble of suffering

Be steady in your stride, shaky hands do no good to lift the shackles

The Mainstream Media surge will wash you away in emotion if you let it

But it’s really not your tide

Be Here, NOW!

Look around but don’t look away.

You are no fool.

Let it all be fuel to command you into empowered action.

The world needs your greatness, your wisdom and maturity.

Remain in the stillness within…

Your empathic heart is far too precious to create a battlefield inside

Hold your ground.

And your head above the waters…

Hold strong.

We’re all in this together…

No one gets out alive.

<3 Donna

 

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Sacred Women’s Circles (and why we need them)

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The Power of Sacred Women’s Circles.

and why we need them… 

I’ve been facilitating Sacred Women’s Circles for around 5 years now. I have experienced so much from holding space for other women that it’s hard to articulate the scope of what this work provides and why I feel it is crucial and beneficial for women to have access to these sacred spaces. So, I decided to make a brief list at all the benefits being involved in a Sacred Women’s Circle has to offer. I could explore this topic in depth, but felt to keep it simple for now. Sacred Women's Circle

  • Women have a safe space to be vulnerable, sharing their tears and laughter.
  • Sitting in Circle with women, hearing others stories helps us to connect with each other and realise that we are not alone. Sometimes the biggest insightful moments that arise in circle come from the, ”me too!” vibe.
  • Giving ourselves permission to attend a women’s circle can be a step out of our comfort zone… a step out of the ordinary that some women need to have something that is deeply meaningful in their lives. Something to look forward to. Something Sacred.
  • Sacred Women’s Circles allow us to see beyond story, without judgement… to see each other on a human level and that is a fundamental role in developing a healthy community.
  • Sharing emotional bonds, allows us to not only hold space for one another in respect, but also the feeling that a group of women have ‘got your back’ looking out for your health and wellbeing. And that is such a lovely feeling to have. Women genuinely interested in who you are and what you offer. Indeed YOU provide value simply by being present.
  • Whether physical or virtual, Women’s Circles can help to curb loneliness and isolation.
  • Friendships can be established or deepened within circle, with women you would never cross paths with, or think that you would have anything in common. This is special.
  • Sharing from our hearts, we get to share in the celebration of our successes and honour each other’s challenges and struggles.
  • Women’s Circles can provide a Sacred container for your most intimate thoughts… that will be held without judgement… relating to sexual health, relationships, parenting, the stress of being a woman in the modern world etc. Being Witnessed is truly powerful.
  • Deep listening and being held by the feminine during a process can be cathartic and liberating for some… having the opportunity to express desires or fears simply for what they are… being seen and heard in your truth in a nurturing environment is deeply healing.., and often a rare opportunity.
  • Women’s circles provide deep healing on many subtle and profound levels. Sometimes we don’t know what we’ve been holding onto, until a sister let’s go in front of us… inviting us to do the same… giving us permission to become more self aware and present in our bodies and hearts.
  •  Sacred Circles will open you up to new experiences and fresh perspectives of the world.
  • Staying committed to a circle is a surefire way to see amazing transformation in your own life, by making a declaration that this time is sacred for you and that YOU are worthy of that which fills your cup. It becomes a space to invest in your Self… and others.
  • Circles can invoke and explore the elements of Play through Creative expressions. Singing, Dancing making art and wildcrafting… learning traditional skills and life hacks.
  • They help provide accountability. A good circle will have women checking in on you to see how you are… even if you haven’t been able to attend a gathering for personal reasons.
  • Sacred Circles honour the seasons of each women. From Menarche to Menopause. Maiden, Mother, Queen and Crone are held with equal respect and reverence. Each woman brings something of value, a gift of self to the whole.

On a more serious note and often not acknowledged or talked about:

  1. A woman dies at the hands of a current or former partner almost every week in Australia
  2. One woman in three has experienced physical violence, since the age of 15
  3. One woman in five has experienced sexual violence
  4. One woman in four had experienced emotional abuse by a current or former partner.4
  5. There is growing evidence that women with a disability are more likely to experience violence. For example, 90% of Australian women with an intellectual disability have been subjected to sexual abuse.
  6. Intimate partner violence  is the leading contributor to ill-health and premature death in women under 45, more than any other well-known risks including high blood pressure, obesity and smoking.
  7. The cost of violence against women and their children to the Australian economy in 2009 was $13.6 billion. It’s calculated to rise to $15.6 billion by 2012-22 without the right preventive action

Statistics sourced from”  http://www.ourwatch.org.au/Understanding-Violence/Facts-and-figures#ABS

Sacred Women's CircleWith the added pressures of modern society… the overwhelm of being a woman can lead to many living a life of disconnect and stress.

Joining or creating Sacred Women’s Circles or Red Tents can be very beneficial to not only your own health and wellbeing, but the effects ripple out into the family and community at large. You will be encouraged and supported on your journey for personal empowerment. You will learn new ways to communicate with others and have a deeper respect for the Sacred.

***I am about to launch my new Online Training program to help women step up into the role as Facilitator of Sacred Women’s Circles with confidence. If you have felt the calling to serve on this level, then please check out Sacred Circle Secrets. 

www.WiseWombman.com/SacredCircleSecrets

Love is..

Donna xx

self sabotage

Self Sabotage

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Self sabotage… sets in at the point of expansion out of what is familiar… when I feel this creeping in, usually in the form of procrastination I take a moment to reflect on my journey… how far I’ve come and where I have yet to go.

Once I acknowledge and declare that ‘I’m scared’ everything starts to shift…

I get out of my own way and start making decisions… ‘failing’ fast

Dusting myself off and getting back on track… walking the entrepreneurial path is not for the faint hearted… you are constantly tested… teased and poked by your will to serve and succeed… whatever that means as it’s all relative.

It’s been a massive spiritual learning curve… showing up fully… learning to serve myself as much as I serve others… as a Highly Sensitive Empath that’s quite ambitious it means setting boundaries for my physical and energetic well being.

I totally suck at catering to ‘my’ needs first but slowly learning to take the pressure off and stick up for myself… as ultimately the only person who has such high expectations of myself is me… general consensus is that I’ve done so much to be proud of. When your dreaming is huge of the legacy you want to create and leave behind after you pass… sometimes it’s hard to acknowledge those ‘small’ achievements.

But you know what I’ve learnt? 

life is a celebration

Everyday there is something so profoundly beautiful transpiring before us… whether you can sense it or not. So much to be grateful for… so much to honour and pay respects to… including the wondrous being that you are. ♡♡♡